Why Relationships Feel So Hard Sometimes
Every couple hits rough patches. It’s not a sign of failure—it’s a sign that something in the system needs attention. When communication breaks down or stress builds up, partners often slip into patterns like criticism, withdrawal, defensiveness, or resentment. Over time, these cycles can replace curiosity and warmth with tension or silence.
Common challenges I help couples navigate include:
- Communication breakdowns and constant arguments
- Emotional distance or loss of intimacy
- Rebuilding trust after betrayal or infidelity
- Balancing work, family, and personal needs
- Adjusting to life transitions such as parenthood or relocation
- Feeling like roommates instead of partners
Even when things feel stuck, change is possible. The goal of therapy isn’t to assign blame—it’s to help you understand what’s happening between you and learn new ways to connect.